Mada (EUW)
: Sorry about that, it seems to have really gotten to you. But I have to agree with the others: If he goes apeshit if you say something he doesn't like, it's his loss, not your's.
Yeah, I should think about that... xD ^^
JustClone (EUNE)
: > [{quoted}](name=Sredshot,realm=EUW,application-id=NzaqEm3e,discussion-id=179nRbMB,comment-id=,timestamp=2018-07-13T11:13:30.058+0000) > > Hello everyone! I'm not creating this channel because I need something, but because I wanna prevent you all from doing he same misstake as me. > Yesterday, I was duo-ing with a friend I met on Warframe like 6 months ago when, sadly, someone started to flame us in French because we weren't playing really really good. My friend was a bit upset so he left the voice chat. I tried to talk in French with the Diana that was flaming us (because I'm Belgian) and just tried to make her less aggresive, I was like: "Yeah, true that he dies and is a bit salty, but pls stop flaming us". (These are not my exact speech but anyway, you understand). > My friend, who doesn't speak French, went on a translator to understand what I said, and he took it really really reaaaally badly. That made him ragequit the game (also the fact that we were getting stomped). Finally, he deleted me from everywhere: LoL, Steam, Discord,... > I'm really afflicted with that story, I mean really much. I was playing 24/7 with him or at least talking, and now, just because I tried to make someone better, I ruined all of our friendship. With all of that, I just wanted to say everyone: Be careful with what you say, maybe you can understand something one way, but if you're with someone else, he/she could understand it another way and be really hurt by that. > Now, I know I shouldn't have said what I said, and I understand that he can feel betrayed because of what I said, but I think the pain is shared between us and now that he blocked me everywhere, the only think I can do is helping other people to avoid them to live the same calamity as me. I also hope he will once read this message and come back to me, because we explained a bit to each other on discord before he delete me, and he said he understood me and what I meant. Is it true? idk but the fact is: I lost one of my best friends ever and I don't know how I'll go over it... > > Don't hesitate to share this message to help as much people as you can. Also, think about that this story could have happened on another game too... > PS: I put this message in the board "player Behaviour" but I wish I could lpace it in advice too. I think that if someone does stupid shit like this, you should not have dealings with him... Your friend got flamed by others, and the first thing he decides to do is: "Lets delete my friend from EVERYWHERE?" Like what the fk?!? WHY WOULD YOU WANT A FRIEND LIKE THAT? You are much better alone, than with friends like that... Your friend was absolute trash, compared to you. You owe him nothing. Not a damn thing. If this is one of your best friends, I can imagine how your regular and bad ones treat you... Screw this one, and find others , that will count on you and will respect you.
Idk if I mussunderstood you or if you missunderstood me, but He delete me because I said to the flamer that he could be sometimes salty and die a lot. He saw that like if I talked in his back because I was talking French with the flamer. I hope I've been clear in what I said xD
: >That made him ragequit the game (also the fact that we were getting stomped). Finally, he deleted me from everywhere: LoL, Steam, Discord,... and now we know what happens when a duo partner isn't defending the other's honor no matter what stupid sheet he does... > I ruined all of our friendship. no. a "friend" who can't accept criticism is not worth your time > I know I shouldn't have said what I said, and I understand that he can feel betrayed because of what I said, he felt betrayed because you didn't kiss his a$$? good riddance! you need better friends. i'm sure you'll find some if you are always truthful to others and to yourself and don't hide your opinion, regardless what someone else thinks about it. A friendship that is based on lies isn't worth much.
Thanks for all these answers :O Yeah, I'm usually REALLY honnest to people xD Maybe sometimes too much? And after thinking about it, what you say is true and I'll try to learn from it ^^ Thanks again ^^
ChocoParis (EUNE)
: It happens everywhere everyday particualraly to me 4 times of different reasons. But i am really sorry for two of them, well i cant bring the time back i should continue. Psychic is something really strange and honestly this is why yi cant really expect anything from anyone. One day you are both laughting the next day you made a joke about his rank (he was smurfing or bringin back to the game i dont know how to describe it) and he gets too mad. This is why I have 2 friends and dont want more. I hate the moment when everything on a friendship get complicated and you should think about every single word which you will say. I dont know will this makes you feel better but you didn't do anything bad it is just psychic and nobody can control it. I honestly never block someone because i think everything can be repaired but in most of the time its just like semi-full vase. You can use glue to repair the broken vase but it will never be usefull again. But trust me DONT BLAME YOURSELF its noone's fault.
Thanks for this comment, I'm sorry for you and I understand all what you mean. I also don't have a LOT f friends because I prefer to know them much and enjoy every single moment with them than having tons of friends and yeah... :D
: > but the fact is: I lost one of my best friends ever and I don't know how I'll go over it... best friends aren't supposed to delete you from their life for something so trivial just try to reason with him, probably was just pissed and soon you two will be riunited and be friends again
Yeah, ty ^^ Actually that's what I think and hope too :D Maybe do I worry too much, that's not impossible xD and yeah, there is no way for me to talk to him rn but anyway... xD
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